Measure approximately 2-3 tablespoons of coffee grounds for one cup of water.
Add the coffee grounds to the upper chamber of the Indian coffee filter.
Pour boiling water over the coffee grounds and cover the filter. Allow the coffee to drip into the bottom chamber.
Heat the milk until it is just short of boiling.
Pour the brewed coffee into a 'dabarah' (a wide metal saucer with lipped edges) or a cup, filling up to a third or half of the vessel.
Add the hot milk.
Sweeten with sugar as desired.
Use the 'dabarah' and 'tumbler' to mix and aerate the coffee by pouring it back and forth a few times. This also helps cool the coffee to a drinkable temperature.